Shape, Aug 2008 - Grabbing Opportunities, by Deshun Deysel
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This month> Grabbing opportunities - by Deshun Deysel
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to live a great life, with no effort whatsoever? Do you have a friend who seems to get one exciting - yet effortless - opportunity after the other? Ever wandered round a mall in the hopes that a complete stranger will come up to you and offer you a dream job/life?
Why does it seem like so many people get so lucky, while all you seem to do is grind away at a boring - sometimes thankless - job?
The way you read the following sentence may be just the clue you need:
opportunityisnowhere
You could see it as "opportunity is no where" or "opportunity is now here" - depending on your general attitude about opportunity and life.
HOW TO IDENTIFY IT
The best definition I've ever heard is: "luck is when opportunity meets up with preparation". I had to think about this one but then I realised that this was just how I got my first chance to become a mountaineer.
Mountaineering had been a childhood dream. As a nine-year-old U was captivated by a documentary of the first successful summit of Everest by Sir Edmund Hillary and Sherpa Tenzing Norgay, in 1953.
Exactly 17 years later, I applied to be a member of the first South African team to plant the new national flag on Everest. I was accepted and have been climbing ever since.
At the time it seemed unrealistec for expect that a township girl would get the chance to climb Everest and when I was selected a friend wondered out loud how I got so lucky. I told her I'd seen an entry form attached to an article in the Sunday newspapers. She'd seen the article too, but not the entry form! My theory is this: even if opportunity is now here, we will only see it if we have a clear idea of what we're looking for. In the 17 years I fantasised about climbing Everest, my subconscious was constantly searching for ways to connect me to my adventure. People aren't necessarily lucky, they just know what they want....sometimes a long time before it happens.
OPPORTUNITIES FOR A FABULOUS FUTURE
When you look at the following points, do you agree or disagree?
- The better prepared I am for my future, the more opportunities come to me.
- I am focused on, and feel excited about, the next five years of my life.
- I continuously refine my idea of the future in order to make the best choices.
- I actively and continuously seek out possibilities for ongoing personal development.
- The contributions I make often lead to interesting opportunities/events/projects.
Your responses to these statements determines where you're an opportunity grabber, or someone waiting in the wings hoping to be discovered!
DARE TO DREAM!
Don't be afraid: dreams are free and dreams can take you anywhere - even to the top of Mt Everest! In his book Seizing your Divine Moment (Thomas Nelson Books) Erwin Raphael McManus suggests that when a moment is missed that opportunity too is missed, and that a dream is a moment still to come. Your challenge is not to seek divine moments, but seeking your divine moment: the moment which connects you with your clear vision.
Starting with the simple question, "what do I really want?" could lead you to the opportunity you've been waiting for.



